Lately, I have started to put my phone down. What I mean is, I find that I am setting my phone face down when I am with my children, with Shad, and with friends. It makes me look into eyes and be fully present. I have to admit, it was hard at first. I found myself grabbing for it for no particular reason. I have learned to love this practice. Crosby, our youngest, even inquired if Instagram was broken. Ouch. It was my escape when parenting, marriage, or life got hard. It was easy to go to my “happy place” when all along my happy place was right in front of me.